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دعا، پھول، اور آپ کا سلام

You cannot be at the graveside this month. Someone should be.

We care for graves across Pakistan on behalf of families living abroad — cleaning, fresh flowers, and Fatiha — and send you dated photographs from the graveside after every single visit.

Plans from $25 a month · All Pakistan graveyards · Cancel any time

  • Photographs after every visit
  • The same caretaker each time
  • Unused months refunded
  • Nothing posted without your permission

Most families abroad manage a visit home once every few years. In between, the grave sits through a monsoon, then a summer, then another monsoon.

You already know what it will look like when you next stand in front of it. That knowledge is what sits with people at two in the morning.

It is not neglect. It is distance. But distance is a thing that can be solved.

How it works

Four steps, then it simply happens

You set it up once on WhatsApp. After that the only thing that arrives is the photographs.

  1. STEP ONE

    Tell us who

    Name, the graveyard, roughly when they were buried, and anything else you remember. A photograph of the headstone helps but is not needed.

  2. STEP TWO

    We find the grave

    We locate it, record the plot number, and drop a permanent GPS pin so it is never lost again. You get photographs of how it looks today, before any work.

  3. STEP THREE

    Choose how often

    Monthly, fortnightly, or weekly. Flowers or no flowers. Fatiha, or a full Yaseen. Everything is recorded on your grave file and followed each time.

  4. STEP FOUR

    Proof arrives

    Within 24 hours of every visit, photographs and a short video reach you on WhatsApp. You never have to ask whether it happened.

What you receive

Six photographs and a video, every visit

The reason this business exists is that you cannot verify it yourself. So we over-document, deliberately.

BeforeWide shot — the grave and its surroundings as we found them
BeforeClose on the headstone and inscription
DuringThe work itself — washing, clearing, weeding
AfterWide shot from the same angle, so you can compare
AfterClose on the cleaned stone with flowers placed
VideoThirty seconds — walking up, salaam, a slow pan across

Every image carries its date and location. A small dated card sits beside the headstone in one frame. We never reuse a photograph, and we change the angle each visit so you can see the work is new.

Plans & prices

Published prices, no negotiation

Priced in pounds and charged in your own currency. Pay for a year and three months are free.

Basic

One visit each month

$25 / month

$225 for the year — 3 months free

  • Full clean and weed clearing
  • Fresh flowers, or none if you prefer
  • Fatiha recited at the graveside
  • Six photographs and a video
Choose Basic
Most chosen

Standard

Two visits each month

$45 / month

$405 for the year — 3 months free

  • Everything in Basic, twice over
  • Priority booking on Eid and Shab-e-Barat
  • Annual condition report on the stonework
  • One video call from the graveside included
Choose Standard

Weekly

One visit every week

$80 / month

$720 for the year — 3 months free

  • Everything in Standard, every week
  • Yaseen recited once a month
  • Up to two graves in the same graveyard
  • Direct line to the caretaker who attends
Choose Weekly

One-off visits and additions

Single visit, no plan
$30
Dated visit — Eid, Shab-e-Barat, anniversary
$35
Finding and recording an unlocated grave
$30
Live video call from the graveside
$10
Yaseen or Quran Khwani by a qari
$25
Premium flowers and rose petals
$8
Charity distributed on your behalf
at cost
Second grave, same graveyard
half price

The $30 location fee is credited back in full against any annual plan. If we cannot find the grave, it is refunded.

Why families choose us

The things that are easy to promise and hard to do

You can verify every visit

Dated, location-stamped photographs, a changing angle each time, and a dated card in frame. Not a stock image, not last month's photograph sent again.

The same person, every time

One caretaker is assigned to your grave and stays with it. They learn the plot, they know the stone, and you can speak to them directly.

We follow your family's practice, not ours

Flowers are not compulsory. Our Simple Care option is cleaning and Fatiha only, with nothing placed on the grave. Tell us once and it is recorded permanently.

Nothing goes online without permission

We never post an identifiable grave. Any image we share has the name on the headstone removed, and only ever with your written consent first.

Refunds without a conversation

Cancel whenever you want. Unused months on a prepaid plan are returned pro-rata. No notice period, no fee, no one asking you to reconsider.

We tell you when it is bad news

If the stone has cracked, subsided or been damaged, you get the photograph and an honest repair estimate — not a reassuring picture taken from the good side.

From families we look after

What people say once the first photographs arrive

I had not seen my father's grave since 2016. I opened the photographs at work and had to go and sit outside for a while.

— Placeholder · Birmingham

My brother went to check without telling them. He said they were there, and they were doing it properly.

— Placeholder · Toronto

We asked for no flowers, just the cleaning and Fatiha. They never once questioned it or tried to upsell us.

— Placeholder · Manchester
Questions

The things people ask before they trust us

How do I know the visit actually happened?

Every visit produces at least six photographs and a short video taken at the graveside. Each image carries the date and GPS location, and a small dated card appears beside the headstone in one frame. We never reuse a photograph, and the angles change each time so you can see for yourself that the work is new. Everything reaches you on WhatsApp within 24 hours.

What if you cannot find the grave?

This happens more often than families expect, particularly for burials from many years ago. If the details you give us are not enough, we carry out a paid location visit to search the graveyard, record the plot number, and drop a permanent GPS pin. It costs $30, and we credit it back in full if you take an annual plan. If we still cannot find the grave, we refund the fee.

Which graveyards in Pakistan do you cover?

All of them, including Miani Sahib, Mominpura, Model Town, Garden Town, Cavalry Ground and the DHA phase graveyards. We work to a graveyard schedule rather than fixed dates, which is what keeps the price where it is. You choose the plan, we choose the day.

Do you have to place flowers?

No. Families differ on this and we follow your wishes rather than our own. Our Simple Care option is cleaning and Fatiha with no flowers and nothing placed on the grave. Tell us at sign-up and it is recorded permanently on your file, so it never has to be repeated.

Can I cancel, and do you refund?

Yes to both. Cancel any time, and any unused months on a prepaid plan are refunded pro-rata. No notice period, no cancellation fee, and no conversation about why.

How do I pay from the UK, United States or Canada?

By card or international bank transfer, in pounds, dollars or Canadian dollars. You are charged in your own currency at the price shown, with no conversion surprises. Annual plans are paid once; monthly plans are billed each month and can be stopped at any point.

Can I ask for a visit on a specific date?

Yes. Shab-e-Barat, both Eids, Ramadan and death anniversaries can be booked as dated visits for $35, whether or not you hold a plan. These days fill several weeks ahead, so book early.

What happens if the grave is damaged?

We photograph it and tell you plainly, with an honest estimate of what repair would cost. We would rather send you an uncomfortable photograph than a reassuring one that is not true.

Can my family in Pakistan check your work?

We encourage it. Tell us who they are and we will share the visit schedule with them so they can turn up unannounced. Our caretakers carry photographic identification and will answer any question a family member asks at the graveside.

Will photographs of my family's grave appear online?

Never, unless you give us written permission first. We do not post identifiable graves, and any image we do share has the name on the headstone removed. Your photographs belong to you.

دعا، پھول، اور آپ کا سلام

Send us a name. We will do the rest.

Message us on WhatsApp with who you are looking for and which graveyard. We will tell you within a day whether we can find them.

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